....which may or may not subsequently save black women, which in turn can save the black family.
Lemme start by saying this. i LOVE my little sister. i'm talking, background of my cell phone, photo on top of the computer, keep a pic of her in the car, special ringer, all that kinda stuff. But that's the problem. You know the recent news when the father shot the boy who was having sex with his daughter ? Men across the U.S. (especially us BLACK men who grew up in this Black Exploitation Television age) felt him. Because on one hand, some of the people we knew in college, who we still say what up to.... be fuckin bitches, and smuttin these hoes out. let's keep it 100. Most of us know someone who is just tryna get some pussy and has no problem sayin that. it aint no manipulation or no bullshit, he aint hittin the girl no shit like that.... but he's in it for the pussy, and as soon as you know it, he's beating the freaky broad in the shower. Imagine that it's only gettin worse. Because if you graduated college in 08.. you knew that the class of 09 was the last year of reasonable people and shit that came with it.. it's only gettin worse..... you knew exactly why he shot. and shot. and shot. and... shot.

The first one was just for being triflin and fuckin in his house (he can't shoot his daughter.. c'mon)
the second ? I don't even know you. I refuse to believe my daughter is having sex, but if she is... i'd like to know the mf'a (so i can kill him if something happens)
3- he's 18 and she's 16 ? Enough said.
and the most important thing is...
if the daughter had been in his life for 16 years.. THATS 16 YEARS OF SLEEPLESS NIGHTS WORRYIN ABOUT SOME BULLSHIT HAPPENIN TO HIS CHILD...

can you imagine the bullshit that a person thinks about when he gets home from work (which may be at 5:30, a whole 3 hours after high school is out..... which is long enough to get into all kinds of trouble.... *not that i've done anything :-X* ) and turns on the news to this?

"16-year-old boy beaten to death in Roseland"
"Police: Gang rape outside school dance lasted over two hours"

Generally, Niggashit happens with men. Let's be forreal. Women may be petty, and they might like each other, and occasionally they'll go to blows.. but men ? I'ma have my son learn how to throw em (oh wait, we dont fight, we shoot now :-\) because even sayin hello is an asswhoopable offense to these simple ass men. we fight over people looking in the wrong direction, minding their business, just being around. like come on.

Now that makes me want to whoop someones ass and it aint my child. Come on. But the thing about girls is... girls dont do girls as bad as boys do girls. and a lot of that is sexual based. if it aint physically "fuckin" the girl, it's callin her a bitch, or makin her an object... throwin money at her (which leads the girl to think that the pussy is the end all, be all.... like she aint got shit else to offer, cause simple ass men can't appreciate personality or intelligence... it's SANDOS or keep it movin.) it's perpetuated thru the work of the male.

So where was i going with alladis ? A group of friends... a bunch of intelligent, articulate, ambitious people i know.... are all scared to have daughters. Myself included. Being a male... I think i can teach my son better than i can a daughter (and that's evident in the expectations i give my male students, external of classroom stuff) but i think it's more that... being a male... i know what kinda stupid shit we do that can destroy the black woman.

I'll have more, but blogging doesn't pay the bills so i got to finish some work.

Be easy.